There's always been a major focus on wounded women but I am finding that there are more and more
men who have been hurt and carry such a strong defense that makes it impossible to be in
relationship with them. It's devastating meeting a great guy that's been hurt because the damage done
causes him to 1. Keep you in the limbo zone. 2. Sabotage your efforts to love him. 3. Put you in the
"what if y...ou are just like..." category. When dealing with a wounded person it's a catch 22 because
you have to decide A. I deserve better and am moving on. Or B. Ride it out. Either way you take a
risk and have to be adamant about not losing yourself in the process. No matter what don't stop
loving and don't stop learning. Nothing is in vain... #evenebony
My ultimate hope is that when a relationship, a job, community expectations, the judicial system,
religion, or any element that causes a man to buckle that he will dares to be strong. This being strong
is his willingness to be weak; making himself vulnerable and receptive to recovery with the help of
those that love him. Our Kings need and deserve respite care. May they receive it, become
strengthened, and as a result lift their homes, their communities, and their churches higher. I am such
a sucker for black love...witnessing its miracle power is such a wonder. Yeah.....a hopeless optimist is
what I am.
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