Remember, optimism is my middle name ;)
Some are gender specific but feel free to switch for your liking.
Funny yet serious=fuserious
(1.) Dating is more of a process of elimination than a selection (of both traits and people). "Did she just do that?...NEXT! Ironically the "NEXT" is an emotional disconnect but selfish motives keeps the person 'around' in the event they can meet a need.
(2.) More of a journey than a destination. A journey leading to friendship.lol. In which most times is forced because you need to justify all this wasted time.
(3.) While he dates 5 other women, she takes a compliment and feels like she's cheating. Her hope is that her loyalty will win her the man when in reality he already knows who he wants and her pride won't accept that it's not her. Womp Womp.
(4.) Lots of lying by omission. ;/. Don't ask, Don't tell. Do ask, still don't tell.
(5.) You like them because they like you as it feeds your ego. "He's cool I guess " Umm,alright. Yeah...ok.
(6.) You just don't want to be alone but not interested in really being in a relationship. "I'm just tryna kick it" Huh? What?
(7.) The person just makes you feel better about your already miserable life. If you were in a good place you wouldn't entertain them. Uh oh!
(8.) Too many akward 'where do we stand again' moments.
(9.)You learn way more about yourself than you do the person you're dating and usually the conclusion is you are probably in no place to be dating. Bwaha!
(10.) If you 'date' for a lengthy time with no intention someone always ends up hurt ;(
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