The moment someone comes up with a set of rules regarding
relationship “how tos” “must dos” and “never dos” is the moment you experience
the greatest time of your life and learn your most crucial lessons doing none of those things.lol. The games we
play stifles me as we spend so much time trying to outsmart the other person
and present morally sound when our inner dummy and hoe is just waiting to
scream “SURPRISE”. I enjoy hearing how
people find love and quite frankly they all sound vastly different but the
savor seems to be the same.
Let your experience & your inner voice guide you as you
determine what works for YOU and what doesn’t. Be aware of what YOU want, What
YOU don’t want, and Where YOUR wiggle room lies. Be who YOU are knowing that
somebody has either 1. Been looking a long time just for your quirky make-up or
2. Good, Bad, or Indifferent is in desperate need of what you can offer even if
they don’t know it yet, as the missing piece to their puzzle lies in you. Contrary
to popular belief, love is available to EVERYONE. Nothing you can do disqualifies
you. Those that consider themselves worthy because they’ve crossed all their “T”s
and dotted all their “I”s are in no better position than those who consider
themselves unworthy and worthless due to their past mistakes. OooOwEE
now that’s the kinda God I serve, raining on us all is in justness. Now
repeat after me: Whether I burn every meal or burn like Paula Dean theres
somebody for me. Whether I am fat or skinny there is somebody for me. Whether I
am bald or Rapunzel is my mama there is
somebody for me. Whether I have a PHD or GED there is somebody for me. Whether
I have much or little there is somebody for me. Whether I believe it or not
THERE IS somebody for me.
My only advice: Constantly work on being YOUR better YOU so
that assurance alone is in agreement that you deserve the best. What is the
best? It cannot be measured by the standard of man but something only you and
your Creater can comprehend.
So whether its a one night stand or a wedded hand...whats for you is for you. Please don't shoot me, just accept the lesson for what its worth. Its no secret that marriage is a honored covenant but with the divorce rate I think the conversation needs to change a tad bit...im just saying. *wink*
Live. YOUR OWN LIFE.
Learn. FROM YOUR OWN VOICE.
Laugh. WHEN YOU DO WHAT YOU SAID YOUD NEVER DO WHILE
FORGIVING YOURSELF TO JUST LIVE, LEARN, AND LAUGH AGAIN J.
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